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Andrew Mottashed © Pamela Oland ¢ Jenny Park © Donna Price Gail Radley ¢ Mary K. Radpour e Joanna Rosene-Mirvis Rhea Sanghavi © Tuy Sereivathana « Homa Sabet Tavangar Anabel Thurman e lan Williams ¢ Nancy Wong

Original illustrations by C. Aaron Kreader, unless noted. By Lisa Blecker: Photos for p. 21; inking and coloring for p. 2 Historical photos courtesy of National Baha’ Archives, unless noted.

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By Amy Renshaw: 6, 7, 11, 14, 24, 27, 29 By Susan Engle: 2, 9, 12, 18, 20, 28 By Annie Reneau: 3, 8, 16, 22 By Lisa Blecker: 4, 21 By Donna Price: 5, 10, 14, 17

Brilliant Star magazine invites all kids to explore the Baha'i Faith. It is the second most widespread religion in the world, with more than five million Baha'is.

The Baha’i Faith was founded by the Prophet Baha'u'llah (“Glory of God” in Arabic) in 1863. Baha'u'llah taught that all people are part of one human family, and that all religions come from one God. Baha’is work to bring peace and unity to the world, and end prejudice and discrimination of all kinds.

Baha’u’llah’s eldest son, ‘Abdu’l-Bahd, interpreted His teachings and led the Baha’i community after Baha’u'llah’s passing.

Brilliant Star encourages kids to bring their virtues and talents to light, and use them to make the world a better place. Brilliant Star is produced bimonthly by the National Spiritual Assembly of the Bahd’is of the U.S.

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Baha’u’llah’s Life: Mission of Peace A glimpse of Baha’u'llah’s faithful family

Maya’s Mysteries How is a parachute like a trusted friend?

Riley’s Rainforest What do friends and broccoli have in common?

We Are One Explore and care for the place we all call home.

Radiant Stars Get to know kids who shine, like you.

Lightning and Luna: Episode 47 As the Uplifters test new tools, Arctic mayhem brews.

Stargazer: Homa Sabet Tavangar Inspiring people to be true world citizens

Music Café A song about the fantastic quality of fairness

Nur’s Nook Celebrate your family by making a photo tree.

Calendars What’s special about November and December?

Shining Lamp: Shirin Dalvand She gave her life to serve her community.

Cosmo’s Corner A crossword and more from our favorite chameleon

aMAZEing ADVENTURE Like a tree needs its roots, you rely on your family.

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Growing Your Family Discover a garden full of good companions.

What Do You Say? Do you keep your cool when conflicts come up?

Rolling Out the Fun You'll be on a roll with these friendship tips.

Breaking the Ice

Meeting someone new? What do you do? Se ee e's Manic Memories Make a scrapbook of treasured times.

Monkeying Around How do marmosets hang out and help out?

Diversity Down Under

Australia has animals found nowhere else on Earth.

Smooth Sailing with Siblings Change a battleground into a playground.

My Alien Family Are you living with beings from another planet?

Picture Day Why is Abbey afraid to go to school?

Your Camera Is Your Friend Experiment with the art of photography.

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. a When you're hanging out with friends or having fun with your family, the hours can fly by. Connecting with others brings us joy, laughter, and great memories. But times can also get tough. It’s a big challenge to have conflicts with the most important people in our lives.

From your loved ones at home to people around the globe, the Bahd’i writings urge us to “Be a friend to the whole human race.” That requires lots of skills and virtues, including listening, patience, and respect. But the rewards are endless.

In this issue of Brilliant Star, check out tips for building family unity, getting along with the friends you have, and making new ones. Read a fiction story about a girl who’s worried about being different. Create a family photo tree, draw your favorite memories, and meet Homa Sabet Tavangar, who encourages us to be a friend to all by appreciating world cultures. “WY

Enjoying good times with friends and family not only keeps you happy and healthy— it also helps create a more peaceful planet.

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ave you ever seen three sisters in your garden? attract helpful insects and other creatures, repel pests, Not your siblings or friends, but corn, beans, nourish the soil, and provide shade. and squash! These three plants were named the Just as different plants can create a harmonious

“Three Sisters” by American Indians, because they help garden, you and your family support each other with each other when planted together. The corn stalks support _— different qualities and strengths. Maybe you love to the bean vines. The beans add nitrogen to the soil. And garden and your brother likes to cook fresh veggies. the squash controls weeds and keeps the ground moist. | Or your mom is good at planning trips, and your dad

Many gardeners have found that various plants is a great navigator. When we all share our virtues, make good companions. They can work together to families will bloom all year round.

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Baha'u'llah

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1817 November i2__ Birth of Baha’u'llah in Tihran, Iran

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Imprisonment in the “Black Pit” of Tihran

1853-1863 SS Exile in Baghdad, Iraq. From 1854-1856, He goes into the mountains to pray in solitude.

1863 April 22 Declares Divine Mission as Prophet-Founder

of the Baha’ Faith

1863-1868 Exile in Constantinople (Istanbul), then Adrianople (Edirne), Turkey. Begins writing letters to kings and rulers in 1867,

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magine if your family were | ss thrust into poverty and exiled from your home- land, never to return. When Baha’u'llah’s family endured these and many other challenges, they supported one another with love and devotion. Baha’u'llah was nearly 18 years old when He married Asiyih Khanum in Tihran, Iran, in 1835. They both came from wealthy families and could have chosen a life of ease. Instead, they spent their time helping those in need. Baha’u'llah was called “Father of the Poor” and Asiyih Khanum “Mother of Consolation.” Baha'u'llah honored Asiyih Khanum with the title “Navvab,” meaning “Highness” or “Grace.” Women were usually not treated as equals in Persian society, but their relationship was one of mutual respect and love. They had three children. Their eldest son, ‘Abbas Effendi, later took the name ‘Abdu’l-Baha, or “Servant of Baha.” They also had a daughter, Bahiyyih Khanum, and a younger son, Mirza Mihdi. The family’s life changed dramatically in 1852, when Baha’u’llah was unjustly imprisoned because of His faith. Their home was ransacked, and most of their possessions were taken. Navvab and her children, who were all under nine, struggled to survive while they worried desperately about Baha’u’llah’s safety. At one point, Navvab could only offer her children a handful of dry flour to eat. After four long months, Baha’u'llah was released from prison and exiled to Baghdad, Iraq. This was the beginning of many years of banishment, imprisonment, and terrible

The children of Baha’u'llah and Navvab (left to right): Bahiyyih Khanum, Mirza Midhi, and ‘Abdu'l-Baha. They dedicated their lives to

their family and their faith’s message of peace.

difficulties for the family. Yet through it all, they remained united and courageous.

Baha’u’llah’s final exile led the family to ‘Akka, Israel, in 1868. There, Mirza Mihdi, at the age of 22, died tragically after a fall. Because they were prisoners, the family was not allowed to go to the cemetery for his burial.

In 1877, Baha’u’llah was finally allowed to move to a home in the countryside. ‘Abdu’l-Baha remained in ‘Akka, where he met with officials on his Father’s behalf and helped to lead the Baha’i community. Baha’u’llah revealed His holy writings and met with Baha’is. Baha’u'llah praised His son, whom He called “the Master,” saying, “For Us He has become a mighty strong- hold, a mighty armour.” *

Throughout her life, Bahiyyih Khanum also served her Father and the Baha’i Faith with kindness, strength, and wisdom.

When Navvab passed away in 1886, Baha’u’llah, ‘Abdu’l-Baha, and Bahiyyih Khanum were at her side. Today, Baha’is from all over the globe pray at the resting places of Navvab and her three children on Mount Carmel in Haifa, Israel.

This is from a Baha’’’s autobiography and

may not reflect Baha’u'llah’s exact words.

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tranquility and security of the people.” —Bahd’u'llah

f you're leaping from an airplane, your parachute |: your trusted companion. Parachutes can save

lives in emergencies, and they allow skydivers to make daring jumps. A parachute works because air fills the canopy’s large surface area as you fall. This creates resistance that slows you down until you reach the ground safely.

Like a parachute, having family members and

cy | friends you trust helps you feel safe and secure. | When you fall into difficult situations, you can

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with schoolwork or dealing with a bully, they can offer advice, encouragement, and prayers.

Who are the people you rely on and who rely on you? Trust is often something that builds over time. If your friends keep their promises, tell the truth, and don’t gossip about others, those are clues that they’re trustworthy. You can have confidence that they'll probably listen to you with respect and kindness if you have a problem. And that kind of support can help you make a smooth landing anywhere.

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Drop your parachute from a staircase or other high spot. Experiment indoors and outdoors, and try holding it different ways before letting go. How does it float best?

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WV @ you're friends with him?” “Why are you wearing ae ” Sometimes friends and family can say or do things that hurt you or make you mad. In almost every relationship, conflicts pop up. If you're having trouble, try to take time for both of you

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/ one who urges you to explore and have fun Like bowling a strike, being a true friend is a with new activities, even if they aren’t right up your alley? __ skill. Expressing your feelings, listening patiently, You'll share some interests with your friends, but and sharing your stuff takes practice, and it may not you probably won’t have everything in common. always be easy. You might have disagreements, and Maybe they love bowling, and you’d rather be feelings could get hurt. But solving conflicts is an skating. It’s fun to open your eyes to new hobbies, important skill, too. Developing your abilities as a ideas, or cultures. Good friends will help you learn good friend will make any game more fun.

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ave you heard that expression? It takes courage person answers, listen closely instead of thinking Fl and determination to break the ice successfully— about what you'll say next. whether you're drilling a hole for ice fishing or striking Get in the swim of things by talking to kids you up a conversation. When meeting someone new, do don’t usually hang out with. Maybe they’re from other you ever feel nervous? How do you thaw things out cultures or they have interesting hobbies. Everyone and start a new friendship? has cool stories, ideas, or activities to share.

Even if you feel like a fish out of water, just take You may not plunge into a great conversation a deep breath, smile, and make eye contact. Give a every time. But keep practicing, and it will get easier

sincere compliment or ask a question. When the to break the ice and make new friends.

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have in common? They’re all great for your health. Yep, even your friend! Researchers find that friendships can help you fight off sickness and live longer. Some scientists say that connections with friends and family can be as beneficial as not smoking!

One reason friends help us battle colds and other illnesses may be because they help us handle stress. Too much stress can weaken our immune systems—our bodies’ natural defenses against germs and disease. Friends can boost our confidence and self-esteem, and they can also make us laugh, which is a great stress-reliever.

Research shows that support from friends and family is important in difficult times. In one study, kids who had their best friend nearby during an unpleasant experience felt less stress than those who didn’t. In another study, girls who saw or talked to their moms after

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giving a speech or doing math problems in public had an immediate drop in stress levels. Friends can also encourage us to develop healthy habits. Experts say that if those around you are active, eat well, and avoid unhealthy behaviors such as smoking or drinking alcohol, you may be more likely to make similar choices. Good relationships with family and friends can improve your life in lots of ways. By taking care of them with kindness and respect, you're also taking care of yourself.

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staying healthy and happy? Health can involve your body, mind, emotions, and spirit. Send your questions to brilliant@usbne.org. Responses are given by a health professional.

66 My mom is starting a new job. I'm feeling stressed about it because | have to do a lot of things on my own and | need help and | need to talk to her. How can | release the stress? 99 —Luci, age 11

Dear Luci,

Growing up can be so confusing. We sometimes feel torn between the wish to be independent and the wish to be taken care of. Learning to take on new responsibilities can be stress- ful; it is natural to be uncertain. So we may need to ask for help.

The best way to handle stress is to talk it through. You might want to tell your mom, “Mom, | really want to be helpful now that you have a new job. But | am getting stressed over it, so | need you to tell me —What exactly should | do? Which tasks are most important? What can | leave undone if | have too much to do?"

Getting clear about the answers to these questions should help you be less stressed. It may also help if you and your mom can find some time to relax and have fun together. Good luck with your new responsibilities!

Wishing you health and happiness,

Mary K. Radpour Licensed Family Counselor

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too. When you do your chores, follow the rules, and keep the peace with your siblings, you help your whole family prosper. Then you'll have more time to monkey around and do fun things together!

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| want to be: Entrepreneur

Best quality or virtue: Kindness

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that makes me unique: How do you work out

Ilike being different an argument with a sibling than other people and or friend?

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| live in: Idaho, U.S. x | want to be:

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Best quality or virtue: ys Compassion

Something | like about me that makes me unique:

like all animals, even those others consider to be vermin (rat and snake).

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Webelos Scouts, Aikido...

Place |’d love to visit: LEGOLAND

| like to help people by: Doing services, like 4 picking uptrashand 40 shoveling snow

What are the qualities that make a good friend? Compassion and helpful- ness and friendship

How do you work out

an argument with a sibling or friend?

Play rock, paper, scissors, or discuss what is... the best thing for everyone

My favorite family tradition: Snuggle Triangle—Mom, Cody (dog) and I snuggle, and Mom and I talk about what we wish for the good of humans and/or animals.

make a good friend? Ilike to meet new people, Trustworthiness, being but I’m quiet until I get nice and funny to know people.

| live in: Washington, U.S.

| want to be: Pediatrician

Best quality or virtue: I'ma happy person.

Hobbies or sports: Reading, singing, playing the violin, and basketball

Favorite Baha’i activities: Attending Feast,** summer school,

and children’s class

Favorite animal or pet: Pandas and tigers

Places |’d love to visit: Haifa [Israel] and Greece

| like to help people by: Cheering them up and having a positive attitude

How do you work out

an argument with a sibling or friend?

Itry to get a clear under-

standing of the issue and then fix it.

My favorite family tradition: Ayyam-i-Ha is my favorite ... because

we do special service projects and have parties with friends and family. It’s a lot of fun.

Do you feel comfortable meeting new people?

Yes, [love to meet new peo- ple. It's fun to hear about other people’s interests.

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“Feb. 26 — Mar. 1, days of hospitality, charity, gift-giving, and preparing for the Baha’ Fast

- Feast is a Baha'i community gathering with prayers, consultation, and fellowship.

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| live in: Kansas, U.S.

Best quality or virtue: Helpful to others

Something | like about me that makes me unique: Iam very funny.

| want to be: Teacher

Hobbies or sports: Dance and cheerleading

Favorite religious activities: Tama Christian, and my favorite activity is going

to youth group.

| like to help people by:

Volunteer|ing] my time .. [find it very reward-

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children in our children’s

ministry program at church.

Place |’d love to visit: Disney World

Musau Lwakila Age: 11 | live in: Czech Republic

| want to be

Lawyer or teacher x

Hobbies or sports:

Singing, swimming, x soccer, and reading

Favorite Baha'i activities: Feasts, junior youth group

Place I'd love to visit: India

| like to help people by: Using virtues

What are the qualities that make a good friend? Truthfulness, reliability, trust, patience, and many other virtues

How do you work out an argu- ment with a sibling or friend? Consult about the prob- lem with them and then see how we can fix [it].

What are the qualities that make a good friend?

A good friend is kind, honest, helpful, and loving.

How do you work out

an argument with a sibling or friend?

Isay I’m sorry, and we forgive each other.

My favorite family tradition: Watching movies as a family

How | show appreciation for my family:

Saying thank you and saying that I love them

My favorite family tradition: Baha'i holy days

How | show appreciation for my family:

By showing many

good qualities, like obedience, truthful- ness, and responsibility

Do you feel comfortable meeting new people? Usually Iam, because we could become good friends. However, lam careful not to talk to strangers, andI always try to be polite.

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“God has crowned you with honor and

in your hearts has He set a radiant star; verily the light thereof shall brighten x the whole world!” = — ‘Abdu’l-Baha

Anabel Thurman

Age: 13

| live in: Humacao, Puerto Rico

| want to be: Veterinarian x

Best quality or virtue: Enthusiasm

How do you work out an argu- ment with a sibling or friend? I never fight with my friends. But with my twin sister and brother, I apologize when I lose my temper.

Something | like about me that makes me unique: That I’m bicultural (Puerto Rican mom and American dad)

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some ground rules, such as asking before using each other’s stuff, taking turns with the computer, and

no name-calling. You could have family meetings with your parents to work out any problems.

You can’t control your siblings’ actions, but you can choose to respond to them in a positive way. Focus on respecting one another, and you'll sail the high seas as lifelong friends.

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HOMA SABET TAVANGAR

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and flew from Pennsylvania to The Gambia, Africa, where they lived for three months. Homa volunteered at a local school and wrote a popular blog about the family’s experiences.

It wasn’t the first time Homa had traveled across the globe. She was born in Iran, then grew up in the U.S. During college, Homa studied and traveled in South America and later worked in Kenya. In 1991, she earned a master’s degree in International Development

Q. What was your favorite part about growing

up in a Baha'i family? We always had really interesting people coming to our house. And my friends always noticed that, and our neighbors always noticed that... We always had a lot of very diverse friends ... So I grew up with this diversity in my home as being pretty natural. Later I grew up to realize that was very special.

Q. In your book, you talked about being harassed by kids at school because of your Persian heritage. How did you deal with that?

I would talk about it with my parents, and they would kind of help me work through it . . . | was lucky that

I had other friends that didn’t harass me, so they were a comfort to me. I didn’t feel completely alone. And usually it was just a few people who would be mean and bullying and harassing ... So they really taught me to not focus on that... Sometimes when you think [times are] so bad when you're a kid and you're so different and people maybe make fun of you, but as the years go on, it just becomes so insignificant.

and Economics from Princeton University.

For about 20 years, Homa helped businesses and organizations work with various cultures. Then she published a book, Growing Up Global: Raising Children to Be At Home in the World. She now works to inspire parents, teachers, and kids. Homa writes that having “a global mind-set could be the biggest step you and your family take toward building a more peaceful world... .”

Left: Homa, age 3, and her family visited the Baha’i Temple of North America in Wilmette, Illinois. Right: At about age 7, Homa rode in a Fourth of July parade in Fort Wayne, Indiana.

Q. What's your most exciting career experience so far?

The day I found out that Random House was going to publish my book, that I had a contract with the largest publisher in the world, and they cared about this... That was so exciting... that a big publisher was interested in my little idea. Well, I wouldn’t say my little idea. It’s a big idea, and it’s not all mine.

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Q. What are three things kids can start doing on their own to be more active world citizens? One is just trying new things, like trying new foods ... Make friends with people you really don’t usually talk to. And look around and see who you think needs a friend. And oftentimes it’s the people who are maybe a little less understood by the majority group, so that’s maybe someone who’s come from another country, whose customs are different. And you can really learn from them . . . Get together with your friends. You can bring them along on your global journey and make it fun. You can, for example, rent a movie. . . that was made in another country . .. And finally, think about your service, how you can be of service . . . It doesn’t have to be far away to be meaningful and to feel like a global citizen. The needs at home are also important. . .

Q. What tips do you have for kids who have a hard time making friends? Sometimes it’s less about looking around at the people [and thinking], What's wrong with them? ... Why wouldn’t they be my friend? . . . Think about your own radiance, the love that you're showing . . . Smile from the gut. Smile from deep inside your belly, and you bring this warmth and this radiance, and that’s like a magnet. People are attracted to someone who has that joy .. . And I know that’s not always easy when .. . it feels like you're being excluded . .. Sometimes there are a lot of overlooked people also, like you're not alone . . . Look around with a really open and loving mind and eye at the kids in your class.

Q. If you had one wish for Brilliant Star readers, what would it be?

That they really see themselves as shining stars and so their light can really make a big difference in the world ... And just to realize that if you fail at something, that’s great! ... What you think of as failing, that’s just part of learning. So it’s not failing. And this perseverance, everywhere in the world, anyone that’s done anything has had to persevere through really difficult challenges.

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Top Left: At a TED (Technology, Entertainment, Design) event in March 2011, Homa talked about kids becoming world citizens.

Top Right: In Washington, D.C., in October 2011, Homa supported the Million Moms Challenge, promoting health for children and mothers. Bottom: Homa’s family hosted Lucie, a French exchange student, in their home for a year. From left, Layla, Homa, Lucie, Sophia, Behrouz, and Anisa.

Q. Your family members in Iran have been persecuted, imprisoned, and even killed because they're Baha'is. How can others help stop this injustice?

One is to talk about it and remember it and share this

story with your friends and with your elected officials.

Write letters to those leaders so they know people

remember. You can get your friends involved in writing

those letters, too. It doesn’t just have to be from Baha’is.

Everybody cares about fairness and human rights and

justice. I also even think praying, remembering one of

those people in prison—their name, having their face

[in your mind] so we remember what they look like, and

remembering them in our prayers creates a connection.

PHOTOS: Top left portrait by Michael Spain-Smith, TED event by Wayne K Lin Photography

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leven-year-old Abbey shuffled down the stairs. staring at her. She crammed the hat down in her “Mom, I don’t feel like going to school. Can I backpack and sat down. please stay home today?” she begged. Later, Mrs. Briley asked everyone to get ready for

“Why? You usually want to get there early.” pictures. As Abbey walked to the restroom, she

With worry in her voice, her mom said, “Let me take your temperature.” As much as she loved school, Abbey had never hoped for a fever so much in all her life.

tried to decide whether to be the only one wearing a hat or the only bald kid in the picture. She didn’t like either choice. Feeling sad and alone, Abbey headed to the nurse’s office instead of back to Looking at the thermometer, Abbey’s mom said, “No fever, and

class. “I'll tell her I’m about to throw up. She’ll let me lie down, and I'll have to miss the picture,” Abbey thought. But the closer she got to the nurse’s

your skin color looks normal. If you get sick, Mrs. Kemp, the nurse, will call me.”

Tears poured down Abbey’s face. Mrs. door, the more she thought about how sad her

Kemp was kind, but you had to have proof, such as mom would be if she weren’t in the class picture.

a fever or vomiting, before she would call your parents. “T’ll do it for Mom,” she decided. “She’s been there “Why are you crying?” asked her mom. for me through chemotherapy sessions. She always “Today is class picture day, and I’ll be the only makes things better when I’m feeling down.”

bald kid in the picture,” Abbey sobbed. Walking into the classroom, Abbey’s face lit up “You can wear your purple hat. It’s your favorite,” like the brightest star in the night. Everyone had on

said her mom. hats! Even the boys!

Corina dashed over to Abbey

“Then I'll be the only one wearing a hat. Everyone will see it, and I’ll feel stupid.”

Walking to the car, Abbey’s mom said, “You’re a strong girl. You’ve overcome a lot of obstacles in life. Even if you don’t have hair right now,

and gave her a hug. “You always look so cool in your hats, so I asked Mrs. Briley if we could all wear a hat with you for our you're still the kind, caring person you’ve class picture,” Corina said. always been. That’s what others will remember.” Abbey squeezed her friend and When they got to school, Abbey’s mom admired her blue hat with yellow

hugged her as she handed Abbey the hat. “You . lightning bolts. “Awesome hat,” she said.

decide,” her mom said with a smile. When Abbey’s mom picked her up from school,

As she entered the classroom, Abbey noticed some she said, “I hope you smiled as much for your picture of the kids whispering and looking at her—even her as you are right now.” best friend, Corina. Abbey was so tired of people “Oh, trust me. I did!” Abbey said, beaming.

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stepped through the heavy door into the prison cell, the Baha’i women greeted them. They were eager to get news from outside and hear their stories. “I was completely ready for my arrest,” Shirin, 25, told them.

Shirin explained that she had attended a meeting to help Baha'i youth in their city, Shiraz, Iran.

It was November 29, 1982. In recent years, life had grown more dangerous for Baha’is. By impris- oning, torturing, and killing active Baha’is, the government hoped to destroy the religion. Many Baha’is fled Iran. Shirin had gone to England with her parents, but returned for college. As things worsened, they begged her to return to England. “But I couldn’t ...” Shirin said. “The Baha’is desperately needed each other’s support.” She had asked her family, “How can I leave when so many of my friends’ lives are in danger?”

“Although everyone thought there was a good chance of getting arrested even as we sat in that meeting,” Shirin explained, “we decided to go ahead .

Later that night, guards suddenly stormed into the house and arrested Baha’is, including Shirin. She was known for visiting the families of Baha’i prisoners and

SHINING LAMP

A Baha’‘i who served humanity with radiance

SHIRIN DALVAND (1956-1983): “Sweetness” By cait Radley

While in prison, Shirin told her friend and fellow prisoner, Olya Roohizadegan, “If you ever leave Iran and see my family, send my love to each and every one of them, and

please, Olya, tell the world the whole story.”

martyrs and for helping to plan activities for children and youth.

Throughout the long months in prison, Shirin made many friends, young and old, Baha’i and Muslim. When Olya, another prisoner, cried because she missed her oldest son on his birthday, Shirin hugged her. “Never mind,” she said, “tomorrow is my birthday as well... Now I feel you are my mother too.”

At lunch the next day, Shirin told her friends, “Last year my mother sent me a beautiful night- gown... This year, I am in prison for my beloved Baha’u'llah.”

Because it was her birthday,

each prisoner gave some of her food to Shirin. Food was poor in prison, and there was not enough of it, although everyone shared. Soon Shirin looked worn and ill. Her grandmother's gifts of fresh fruit : could have helped keep Shirin healthy. Still, she put them in a basket for everyone, as they all did. It disappeared before Shirin got any, but she didn’t complain. “T could never tell who among the prisoners was her closest friend,” Olya wrote later, “because she talked to everyone in the same loving, sincere manner.” Finally, Shirin’s trial began. Investigators demanded she report on other Baha’is. She refused. Every day, up to 14 hours at a time, they questioned her. If she and the other Baha’is simply became Muslim, they could walk out of prison. Although her life Pe was in danger, Shirin refused to turn away from Baha’u'llah, ; the Founder of the Baha’i Faith. < She refused during her trial and again at the gallows. On June 18, 1983, Shirin and nine other Baha’i women were all hanged. a Shirin’s given name was Sh; nahin, but since childhood, family an eee i fends called her Shirin, neon a : .

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Use natural light as much as possible. Sunrise and sunset cast a soft, warm glow. Bright sunlight can wash out people’s faces or give you harsh shadows. A cloudy day is a great time to shoot outside, since the clouds help diffuse (or spread out) the light, and you get better tones and colors. Indoors, a flash can create light that’s also harsh. If you must use a flash, stay away from walls, because the flash may cast unwanted shadows.

CHOOSE SIMPLE BACKGROUNDS

A busy, cluttered background can be distracting and draw attention away from your subject. People can even look like they have objects growing out of their heads! Sometimes a slight shift in your angle can give you a cleaner background.

LOOK FOR MOMENTS The best photos can happen when you least expect them.

Rather than asking people to stand still and look at the camera, watch for casual, unexpected moments when they have more natural, relaxed smiles. Or take a shot when they’re laughing, having fun, and being themselves.

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Take close-ups and wide views. Squat down and look up, or climb up and look down. Move around your subject and try different angles. Have fun with your composition. Frame the person off-center rather than right in the middle of the shot.

5 LET THE PERSON SHINE THROUGH

You’re taking photos of unique and inspiring people. Think about what interests you most about them. What actions, expressions, and locations can you capture to reflect their special qualities?

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2. Each member of your family has___ to share. (p. 21) 1. Lightning and Luna's dance group is the Jam. (p. 14) 4. Like marmosets, your family needs __. (p. 10] 3. Delaney and Anabel show appreciation to their parents and 5. One way to break the ice with new friends is to ask a family by saying you. (p. 13)

. (p.7) 6. Shirin Dalvand's family and friends gave her a name that 11. When conflicts pop up, listen to the other person's point of means this. (p. 26)

- (p. 5) _ 7. With these amazing creatures, the fathers give birth. (p. 16)

13. lan's best quality or virtue. (p. 12) 8. When taking pictures, look for unexpected _(p. 27) 14. The three____ are corn, squash, and beans. (p. 2) 9. If you and your siblings fight a lot, try creating a 16. About making friends, Homa says, “Think about your own Pact. (p. 17)

, the love that you're showing .. ." (p. 19) 10. Homa says having “a mind-set could be the biggest 17. Like a , having family members and friends step ... toward building a more peaceful world . .." (p. 18)

you trust helps you feel safe and secure. (p. 4) 12. Being a true is a skill. (p. 6)

18. Its trunk has about 100,000 muscles and tendons! (p. 11) Rev ericndeleanimakcir _which is a great stress-

reliever. (1p. 8)

A theme for a whole issue that | would choose : KEY: T=Top, C=Center, B=Bottom, L=Left, R=Right is friendship. It's one of the most important

. . . . PAGE 2: Basket at TL, compost bin F) 7, G) 4, H) 3. Animals that are endemic things in your childhood and aan impact your : and cart at TC, hoe at TR, pruners at BC, to Australia and its neighboring countries: whole life. The theme would include ways to rake at CR, rain barrel at C, shears at laughing kookaburra, koala, emu, be a good friend, ideas for becoming friends : BL, weeder at BC kangaroo, and short-beaked echidna

with new acquaintances, and ways to deal PAGE 6: 1) best, 2) change, 3) Join, PAGE 17: Differences at left, clockwise with tough situations in friendships . . . : a) others, 6) well, Gyiltsten, 7) test from TL: Helping on ramp, sharing

; 8) advice, 9) forget telescope, helping on rope ladder, sharing

— Council Brandon, age 14, Connecticut, U.S. PAGE 10: Marmosets: one at far TR, a sliding together, Sian Noe Ao , ; two at TR, oneatBR, oneat BC, twoat BL, P1@ying peacefully in sand, sharing ice

Editors’ Note: Thanks for your great ideas, Council. ; one at CL, two at TL, one at TC, three at C cream bar, inviting sibling to play

The theme for this very issue of Brilliant Star was SARE Fe Kanai PAGE 22: 1) Show, 2) most, 3) consultation,

a result of creative suggestions from you and other : eetes Mane 4) privacy, 5) solutions, 6) Apologize,

awesome readers. Keep the ideas coming! : PAGE 16: A) 2, B) 5, C) 1, D) 6, E) 8, 7) positive, 8) Share, 9) talk

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“All may be seen to be the parts of the same tree —the great tree of the human family.

let mankind may be likened to the branches, leaves, blossoms and fruit of that tree.” — ‘Abdu'l-Baha = Vi fhe: — rees are amazing natural treasures. They’re vital And like trees, families can be diverse, with many - ae = TT :: life on Earth. Around the world, thousands branches. In some families, kids live with their parents, of tree species provide oxygen, food, and shelter to siblings, grandparents, or other relatives. Some kids people and animals. Since ancient times, stories and have stepparents, stepsisters, or stepbrothers. Some a | traditions from many cultures and religions have kids are adopted. No matter who makes up a family, or di, ag

honored the mystery of trees. where they come from, everyone helps each other grow. ‘

t Any tree needs a strong trunk and healthy roots You'll make lots of friends through the years, a = |, to support and nourish its branches and leaves. In but you'll only have one family. Together you can oN a similar way, you rely on your family to give you all soak up the brilliant light of life and reach Pe : strength and guidance. magnificent heights. = he & OG ae Help these siblings use ladders, ropes, and bridges to reach their family. x

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