657. Official Bahá’í Funeral Service for Believers Only
"An official Bahá’í funeral service should only be given for a believer, but there is no objection to the reading of Bahá’í prayers, or indeed to a Bahá’í conducting the funeral service of a non-Bahá’í, if this has been requested."
- (From a letter written on behalf of the Guardian to the National Spiritual Assembly of the United States, July 20, 1946)
658. Utmost Simplicity and Flexibility Should be Observed…
"Regarding the Bahá’í funeral service: It is extremely simple, as it consists only of a congregational prayer to be read before burial…. Your National Spiritual Assembly should take great care lest any uniform procedure or ritual in this matter be adopted or imposed upon the friends. The danger in this, as in some other cases regarding Bahá’í worship, is that a definite system or rigid rituals and practices be developed among the believers. The utmost simplicity and flexibility should be observed…."
- (From a letter written on behalf of the Guardian to the National Spiritual Assembly of the United States and Canada, January 10, 1936)
659. No Objection to Bahá’ís Attending Non-Bahá’í Funeral of Bahá’ís
"There is no objection to Bahá’ís attending the non-Bahá’í funeral service of a Bahá’í whose non-Bahá’í relatives have prevented the Bahá’í funeral from taking place. The Bahá’ís should, however, endeavour to offer Bahá’í prayers for the progress of the soul of their departed friend, if circumstances permit. If they cannot be offered on the occasion of the funeral they should be offered at another time."
- (From a letter of the Universal House of Justice to the National Spiritual Assembly of Colombia, May 4, 1966)
660. Obligatory Prayer for the Dead—Permissible to Change Gender
"We have your letter of 23 December 1966 asking whether it is permissible to change the gender of the pronoun in Bahá’í prayers for the dead when the deceased person is a woman.
"The prayer for the dead which is obligatory appears on page 260 of 'Prayers and Meditations'. This prayer allows for a change in gender.
"Other prayers for the dead are optional, but if used they are to be used as revealed."
- (From a letter of the Universal House of Justice to the National Spiritual Assembly of the United States, January 17, 1967)
661. Prayer for the Dead to be Recited by One Believer
"The Prayer for the Dead is the only Bahá’í obligatory prayer which is to be recited in congregation; it is to be recited by one believer while all present stand in silence. Bahá’u’lláh has clarified that the Prayer for the Dead is required only when the deceased is an adult, that the recital should precede the interment of the deceased, and that there is no requirement to face the Qiblih when saying this prayer."
- (Bahá’u’lláh, Kitáb-i-Aqdas, Notes, n10)
662. Non-Bahá’í Can be Present When Long Prayer for the Dead is Read
"There is no objection whatsoever to non-Bahá’ís being present when the long prayer for the dead is read, as long as they respect our manner of reading it by rising and standing as the Bahá’ís do on this occasion. Nor, indeed, is there any objection to non-Bahá’ís being present during the reading of any Bahá’í prayer for the departed."
- (From letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi to the National Spiritual Assembly of the United States and Canada, July 20, 1946)
663. Prayer for the Dead—Special Conditions
"The Prayer for the Dead should be recited at the funeral if the deceased is 15 years old or more. If there is no one at the funeral able to read, it is sufficient to say only that part of the Prayer which requires the repetition nineteen times of each of six short verses.
"The body must be placed in the grave in such a position that the feet point towards 'Akká (the Qiblih)."
- (From a statement prepared by a National Spiritual Assembly in Africa and approved by the Universal House of Justice on June 14, 1982)
664. Any Prayer May be Said for a Woman—Text Must Not Change
"In connection with the question you asked about the prayer for the dead: any of the prayers which were originally revealed for a man or a woman can be said for the opposite sex, but the text must not be changed."
- (From a letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi to an individual believer, November 10, 1946)
665. Memorial Gatherings
"As you know, the offering of prayers on behalf of the departed, whether Bahá’í or non-Bahá’í, is encouraged in our teachings, as such prayers are conducive to the progress of their souls in the world beyond. As to the holding of memorial gatherings at regular intervals, there is nothing in the teachings specifically prohibiting such gatherings, but we find general guidelines in the letters of the beloved Guardian, in which he warns the believers against adhering to the rites and customs of past systems and of former religions, and instead urges them to show forth the Bahá’í way of life and demonstrate the independent character of the teachings of the Faith.
"Advertising memorial gatherings by the family is entirely a personal matter for the family to decide. It is left to the discretion of your National Spiritual Assembly whether Local Spiritual Assemblies may permit the use of their Bahá’í Centres for such gatherings."
- (From a letter written on behalf of the Universal House of Justice to the National Spiritual Assembly of Ghana, May 24, 1974)
