Bahá’í World/Volume 32/Bahá’í Sacred Writings
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Bahzi’l’ Sacred Writings -
A mmpilatian fiam 1/1: writings of Bahd’u'lldh, the Bdb. and Hbdu'l—Babd about the important: affirmil}
From the Writings of Bahé’u’lla’h
After man's recognition of God, and becoming steadfast in His Cause, the station of affection. of harmony. of concord, and of unity is superior to that of most other goodly deeds. This is what He Who is the Desire of the world hath testified at every mom and eve. God grant that ye may follow that which hath been revealed in the Kitéb-i-Aqdas.‘
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The beginning of magnanimity is when man expendeth his wealth on himself, on his family, and on the poor among his breth- ren in his Faith.‘
qt,
That which is of paramount importance for the children, that which musr precede all else, is to teach them the oneness of God and the laws ol‘God. For lacking this. the fear of God cannot be inculcated. and lacking the fear of God an infinity of odious and abominable actions will spring up. and sentiments will be uttered that transgrcxs all bounds. . . .
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The parents must exert every egon to rear their offspring to be religious. for should the children not attain this greatest of adom— mcnts, they will not obey their parents, which in a certain sense means that they will not obey God. Indeed, such children will show no consideration to anyone. and will do exactly as they please.3
qt;
It is the bounden duty of parents to tear their children to be staunch in faith. the reason being that a child who removeth himself from the religion of God will not act in such a way as to win the good pleasure of his parents and his Lord. For every praiseworthy deed is born out of the light of religion, and lacking this supreme bcstowal the child will not turn away from any evil, nor will he draw nigh unto any good.‘
01b
He that bringeth up his son or the son ofanothet, it is as though he hath brought up a son of Mine; upon him rest My glory, My loving-kindness, My mercy, that have compassed the world.5
qe.
O Muhammad! The Ancient of Days hath turned His coun— tenance towards thee, making mention of thee. and exhorting the people ofGod to educate their children. Should a father neglect this most weighty commandment . . . he shall forfeit rights of father— hood, and be accounted guilty before God. Well is it with him who imprinteth on his heart the admonitions of the Lord, and steadfistly cleaveth unto them. God, in truth, enjoineth on His servants what shall assist and profit them, and enable them to draw nigh unto Him. He is the Ordainer, the Everlasting.”
qt,
The fruits of the tree of existence are trustworthiness. loyalty. truthfulness. and purity. After the recognition of the oneness of the Lord, exalted be He, the most important of all duties is to have due regard for the rights of one’s parents. This matter hath been mentioned in all the Books of God and recorded by the Supreme
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Pen. Consider ye that which the Merciful Lotd hath revealed in the Qur'an: “Worship none but Him and show ye kindness unto your parents.”7
Observe how kindness to parents hath been linked to belief in the one true God. Blessed are they who ate wise and understanding, who see and perceive, who read and comprehend, and who observe that which their Lord hath revealed in the holy Books of former Dispensations, and in this incomparable and wondrous Tablet}3
qt,
0 My people! Show honor to your parents and pay homage to them. This will cause blessings to descend upon you from the clouds of the bounty of your Lord, the Exalted, the Great.”
qt,
One of the distinguishing characteristics of this most great Dis— pensation is that the kin of such as have recognized and embraced the truth of this Revelation and have, in the glory of His name, the Sovereign Lord, quaffed the choice, sealed wine from the chalice of the love of the one true God, will, upon their death. if they are outwardly nonbelievers, be graciously invested with divine forgive— ness and partake of the ocean of His Mercy.
This bounty. however, will be vouchsafed only to such souls as have inflicted no harm upon Him Who is the Sovereign Truth nor upon His loved ones. Thus hath it been ordained by Him Who is the Lord of the Throne on High and the Ruler of this world and of the world to come.”
From the Writings of the Béb
It is seemly that the servant should, after each prayer. supplicate God to bestow mercy and forgiveness upon his parents. Thereupon God's call will be raised: “Thousand upon thousand of what thou hast asked for thy parents shall be thy recompense!” Blessed is he who remembereth his parents when communing with God. There is, verily, no God but Him, the Mighty, the Well-Beloved.“
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From the Writings and Utterances of ‘Abdu’l-Bahé
If love and agreement are manifest in a single family, that Family will advance. become illumined and spiritual; but if enmity and hatred exist within it, destruction and dispersion are inevitable.”
Qt!
Note ye how easily, where unity existeth in a given family, the afl‘hirs of that Family are conducted; what progress the members of that Family make. how they prosper in the world. Their concerns are in order, they enjoy comfort and tranquillity, they are secure, their position is assured, they come to be envied by all. Such a family but addeth to its stature and its lasting honor, as day succeedeth day.”
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Compare the nations of the world to the members of 3 fam— ily. A family is a nation in miniature. Simply enlarge the circle of the household, and you have the nation. Enlarge the circle of na- tions, and you have all humanity. The conditions surrounding the family surround the nation. The happenings in the Family are the happenings in the life of the nation. Would it add to the progress and advancement ofa Family if dissensions should arise among its members, all fighting, pillaging each other, jealous and revengeful of injury, seeking selfish advantage? Nay, this would be the cause ofthe effacement of progress and advancement. So it is in the great family of nations, for nations are but an aggregate of Families. Therefore, as strife and dissension destroy a family and prevent its progress, so nations are destroyed and advancement hindered.”
qt,
ln marriage the more distant the bloodqelationship the better, for such distance in family ties between husband and wife provideth the basis for the well—being of humanity and is conducive to Fellow— ship among mankind.IS
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0 ye my two beloved children! The news of your union, as soon as it reached me, imparted infinite joy and gratitude. Praise be
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to God, those two Faithful birds have sought shelter in one nest. I beseech God that He may enable them to raise an honored family, for the importance of marriage lieth in the bringing up of a richly blessed family, so that with entire gladness they may. even as candles, illuminate the world.”‘
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It is highly important For man to raise a Family. 30 long as he is young. because of youthful self—complacency, he does not realize its significance, but this will be a source of regret when he grows old. . . . In this glorious Cause the life of a married couple should resem— ble the life of the angels in heaven—a life full of joy and spiritual delight, a life of unity and concord. a friendship borh mental and physical. The home should be orderly and well organized. Their ideas and thoughts should be like the rays of the sun oftruth and the radiance of the brilliant stats in the heavens. Even as two birds they should warble melodies upon the branches of the tree of fellowship and harmony. They should always be elated with joy and giadness and be a source of happiness to the hearts of others. They should set an example to their fellow—men, manifest a true and sincere love towards each other, and educate their children in such a manner as to blazon the fame and glory of their family.‘7
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According to the teachings of Bahé’u'lléh the family. being a hu— man unit, must be educated according to the rules of sanctity. All the virtues must be taught the family. The integrity of the family bond must be constantly considered, and the rights of the individual members must not be transgressed. The rights of the son, the father, the mothet—none of them must be transgressed. none of them must be arbitrary. Just as the son has Cenain obligations to his father, the Father, likewise, has certain obligations to his son. The mother, the sister. and other members of the household have their certain pre- rogatives. All these rights and prerogatives must be conserved, yet the unity of the family must be sustained. The injury of one shall be considered the injury of all; the comfort ofeach. the comfort of all; the honor of one, the honor of all.”
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qt,
Were there no educator, all souls would remain savage, and were it not for the teacher, the children would be ignorant creatures.
[I is for this reason that, in this new cycle. education and training are recorded in the Book of God as obligatory and not voluntary. That is. it is enjoined upon the father and mother. as a duty, to strive with all effort to train the daughter and the son. to nurse them from the breast of knowledge, and to rear them in the bosom of sciences and arts. Should they neglect this matter, they shall he held respon— sible and worthy of reproach in the presence of the stern Lord.”
qty
Ye should consider the question of goodly character as of the first importance. It is incumbent upon every father and mother to counsel their children over a long period, and guide them unto those things which lead to everlasting honor.m
CK:
Among the divine Texts as set forth in the Most Holy Book and also in other Tablets is this: it is incumbent upon the father and mother to train their children both in good conduct and the study of books; study, that is, to the degree required, so that no child, whether girl or boy, will remain illiterate. Should the father fail in his duty he must be compelled to discharge his responsibility, and should he be unable to comply, let the House ofJustice take over the education of the children; in no case is a child to be left without an education. This is one of the stringent and inescapable command— ments to neglect which would draw down the wrathful indignation of Almighty God.“
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0 ye loving mothers, know ye that in God's sight, the best of all ways to worship Him is to educate the children and train them in all the perfections of humankind; and no nobler deed than this can be imagined.22
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O handmaids of the Merciful! Render ye thanks unto the An- cient Beauty that ye have been raised up and gathered together in this mightiest of centuries. this most illumined of ages. As befitting thanks for such a bounty. stand ye staunch and strong in the Cov— enant and, following the precepts of God and the holy Law, suckle your children from their infancy with the milk of a universal edu— cation, and rear them so that from their earliest days, within their inmost heart, their very nature, a way oflife will be firmly established that will conform to the divine Teachings in all things.
For mothers are the first educators, the first mentors; and truly it is the mothers who determine the happiness. the Future greatness. the courteous ways and learning and judgment, the understanding and the faith of their little ones.“
qt,
Let the mothers consider that whatever concerneth the educa— tion ofchildren is of the first importance. Let them put forth every effort in this regard. for when the bough is green and tender it will grow in whatever way ye train it. Therefore is it incumbent upon the mothers to rear their little ones even as a gardener tendeth his young plants. Let them Strive by day and by night to establish within their children faith and certitude, the fear of God. the love of the Beloved of the worlds, and all good qualities and traits. Whensoever a mother seeth that her child hath done well, let her praise and ap— plaud him and cheer his heart; and if the slightest undesirable trait should manifest itself. let her counsel the child and punish him, and use means based on reason, even a slight verbal chastisement should this be necessary. It is not, however, permissible to strike a child, or vilify him, for the child's character will be totally perverted if he be subjected to blows or verbal abuse.“
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Consider that if the mother is a believer, the children will become believers too, even if the father denieth the Faith; while, ifthe mother is not a believer. the children are deprived of faith, even if the father he a believer convinced and firm. Such is the usual outcome. except in rare cases.
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For this reason both fathers and mothers must carefully watch over their little daughters and have them thoroughly taught in the schools by highly qualified . . . teachers. so that they may familiar ize themselves with all the sciences and arts and become acquainted with and reared in all that is necessary For human living, and will provide a family with comfort and joy.”
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The question of training the children and looking after the orphans is extremely important, but most important of all is the education of girl children, For these girls will one day be mothers, and the mother is the first teacher of the child. In whatever way she teateth the child, so will the child become, and the results of that first training will remain with the individual throughout his entire life, and it would be most difficult to alter them. And how can a mother, herself ignorant and untrained, educate her child? It is therefore clear that the education of girls is of fat greater consequence than that of boys. This fact is extremely important, and the matter must be seen to with the greatest energy and dedication.26
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The father must always endeavor to educate his son and to acquaint him with the heavenly teachings. He must give him ad— vice and exhort him at all times. teach him praiseworthy conduct and character, enable him to receive training at school and to be instructed in such arts and sciences as are deemed useful and neces- sary. In brief, let him instill into his mind the virtues and perfections of the world of humanity. Above all he should continually call to his mind the remembrance of God so that his throbbing veins and arteries may pulsate with the love of God.
The son, on the other hand, must show forth the utmost obedi- ence towards his father, and should conduct himselfas a humble and a lowly servant. Day and night he should seek diligently to ensure the comfort and welfare of his loving Father and to secure his good pleasure. He must Forge his own rest and enjoyment and constantly strive to bring gladuess to the hearts of his Father and mother, that thereby he may attain the good pleasure of the Almighty and be graciously aided by the hosts of the unseen.”
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If thou wouldst show kindness and consideration to thy parents so that they may feel generally pleased, this would also please Me, for parents must be highly respected and it is essential that they should feel contented, provided they deter thee not from gaining access to the Threshold of the Almighty, not keep thee back from walking in the way of the Kingdom. indeed it behoveth them to encourage and spur thee on in this direction.”
qt:
Also a father and mother endure the greatest troubles and hard— ships for their children; and often when the children have reached the age of maturity. the parents pass on to the other world. Rarely does it happen that a father and mother in this world see the reward of the care and trouble they have undergone for their children. Therefore, children, in return for this care and trouble, must show forth charity and beneficence, and must implore pardon and forgiveness for their parents. 50 you ought, in return for the love and kindness shown you by your Father. to give to the poor for his sake, with greatest submission and humility implore pardon and remission ofsins. and ask for the supreme mercy.”
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O Lord! In this Most Great Dispensation Thou dost accept the intercession of children in behalf of their parents. This is one of the special infinite bestowals of this Dispensation. Therefore, 0 Thou kind Lord, accept the request of this Thy servant at the threshold of Thy singieness and submerge his father in the ocean of Thy grace, because this son hath arisen to render Thee service and is exerting eflort at all times in the pathway of Thy love. Verily. Thou art the Giver, the Forgiven and the Kind!”
qt:
Regarding thy question about consultation of a father with his son, or a son with his father, in matters of trade and commerce, consultation is one of the fundamental elements of the founda— tion of the Law of God. Such consultation is assuredly acceptable. whether between father and son, or with others. There is nothing
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better than this. Man must consult in all things for this will lead him to the depths of each problem and enable him to find the right solution."
NOTES
' From a Table: rcvmled in Arabic and Persian, in “Divorce." Th: Compila—
tion quompihtiom', vol. 1 (Ingleside. NSW: Bahé'l Publicaxions Australia.
1991). p. 235'
Tablets of 31/711117!le maled afltr th: Kim'b—i—Aqda: (Wlmcrrc. 1L: Bahé'f
Publishing Trust, 1988), p. 156.
" From a Tablet revealed in Persian, in “Bah.“ Education." T In Campibxtian of Campi/atinm. vol. 1. p. 248.
‘ From a Tabla: malcd in Persian, ibid.
5 The Kildbvi‘Aqdas: Tb: Most Holy Beak (deene, 11.: Bahé‘t Publishing Trust,
199;), Pm 48. P- 38‘
Ibid., Qucsrions and Answers, no. 105, p. 136.
7 Qur’én 4:36.
" From a Tablet mealed in Arabic and Persian, in “Family Life,” The Campilatinn of Compikn'om, vol. 1. p. 385;
9 From aTablet rcvalcd inAnbic, ibid., p. 586.
"’ From a Table: rcvuled in Arabic, ibid.
” Selem'nmfium Ike Wag: qf 1/7: Bib (Haifa: Bahé'f World Centre, 1976), p. 94.
u The I’mmulgan‘nn of Universal Pea”: 751151 Delivered by deu’I—Ba/ad during Hi: Visit ta Ill: Unittd State: and Canada in 1912. rev. ed. (Wilmctre, 11.: Bahé’! Publishing Trust. 1995), pp. 144—45.
” Selection: fiam tbr Writing: of Mdu'l—Ba/M (Wilmette, 11.: Bahi’f Publishing Trust. 1997). para. 21.1.9. p. 292.
“ T11: I’ramulganbn quniumal Pratt, p. 156.
‘5 From an unpublished Tablet revealed in Arabic and Persian.
‘6 Stkm'omfi'om the Writings affibdu'I—Babd, para. 88.1, p. 17.7.
'7 From a Tabla: rcvcalcd in Persian, in "Family Life." The Campibztian ofCom» pikm’om, vol. 1, p. 397.
"‘ Th: l’rnmulgan’an anniumal Peace, p. 168.
‘5' Selem'ansfiam the Writing: af‘AlIdu'l-Ba/Jd. paras. 98.1—2, pp. 134.
lbid.. para. 108.1, p. 141.
lbid.. para. 101.1. p. 134.
Ibid.. pm. 114.1. p. 146.
115111.. paras. 96.1-2, p. 133.
Ibid., para. 95.2, p. 132..
2’ From a Table: revealed in Persian, in “331151 Education," The Campibm‘an of Campilarions, vol. 1, p. 287.
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2" From a Tablc! revealed in Persian, ibid.. p. 2.86.
17 From a Tablcl revealed in Persian. in “Family Life.” Tl): Compilation ofCam- pilatiam. vol. I. pp. 393—94.
3“ From : Tablet revealed in Persian, ibid., p. 392.
2" Sam: Amwtrrd Qurxtiam (Wilmette. IL: Baha"! Publishing Trusx, 1984), pp. 231—52.
-“' Balm”! I’myrrx: A Stlulian af Prayer: Revealed by Balvri'u'lldh. the 311/). and fibula ’LBalzd (Wilmcrtc. IL: Bahé'f Publishing Trust, 2003). p. 64. ’
-“ From a Tablct revealcd in Persian. in “Family Life." Th: Cnmpibm'on nfCom- pilan‘am. vol. I. p. 393‘