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[Page 1]Child's Way A GUIDE FOR BAHÁ’Í PARENTS AND TEACHERS APRIL 1957 (Bahá’í Year 114) No. 50

THE SHRINE OF HIS HOLINESS THE BAB UPON MT. CARMEL, THE MOUNTAIN OF GOD, HAIFA, ISRAEL.

O My Beloved Friends! You are the bearers of the name of God in this Day. You have been chosen as the repositories of His mystery. It behoves each one of you to manifest the attributes of God, and to exemplify by your deeds and words the signs of His righteousness, His power and glory. — The Bab

From the International Center

Not by the force of numbers, not by the mere exposition of a set of new and noble principles, not by an organized campaign of teaching — no matter how world-wide and elaborate in its character — not even by the staunchness of our faith or the exaltation of our enthusiasm, can we ultimately hope to vindicate in the eyes of a critical and sceptical age the supreme claim of the Abhá Revelation. One thing and only one thing will unfailingly and alone secure the undoubted triumph of this sacred Cause, namely, the extent to which our own inner life and private character mirror forth in their manifold aspects the splendour of those eternal principles proclaimed by Bahá’u’lláh. — Shoghi Effendi, Guardian of the Bahá’í World Faith.

A BLESSED TIME FOR A BLESSED YOUTH

In a Tablet addressed by ‘Abdu’l-Bahá to the American believers in 1906, He said, "It is a New Year . . . Now is the beginning of a cycle of Reality, a new Cycle, a new Age, a new century, a new time and a new year. Therefore it is very blessed." (TAB, p. 38)

And ‘Abdu’l-Bahá went on to explain what the effect of this blessing should be "in the faces and characteristics of the believers," so that they "may become a new people . . . and may make the world a new world."

What an advantage the Bahá’í Youth of today have in fulfilling these wishes of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá! They start afresh, without having to rid themselves of the "old ideas," the "old garments," the "ancient politics" mentioned by ‘Abdu’l-Bahá as encumbering the old world. The Bahá’í Youth are educated by the Teachings given to the world by the Divine Physician today — Bahá’u’lláh — especially for the healing of the illnesses of this chaos and confusion in the decrepit old world caused by outmoded and selfish ideas, by the scars and patches of disunified thinking and action, and by the ancient patent medicines which do not cure, but often simply aggravate the disease. Not out of this past confusion, but out of the orderly and constructive growth of the new laws and institutions of Bahá’u’lláh will come the healing of the present ills and the awakening of new life in the world.

The best minds of most of the [Page 2]governments of the world and its sincere peoples are seeking the elixir which will put life into the seemingly dead body of the world. The Bahá’í Youth know this elixir. It is their privilege and duty to nourish themselves with it every day and to offer it to others. One drop of the Teachings of Bahá’u’lláh has greater effect than rivers of past teachings. Indeed, ‘Abdu’l-Bahá has said: "One single ready drop is better than a sea which is past. More especially, this new Cause is like unto a sea, while all those which are past were like unto rivers." (TAB p. 299)

How much meaning lies in those words "one single ready drop!" In the springtime the buds are ready to burst out, needing only the warmth of the sun and the showers of rain. Bahá’í Youth are ready. The warmth of the love of Bahá’u’lláh poured forth in His Teachings and in His Covenant, and the showers of bounties in the tasks (yes, and the tests) given Bahá’í Youth to do through the unerring guidance of our beloved Guardian—these awaken the Youth to unfold in this Springtime of the Divine Teachings, to bud and blossom so that the fruits of the Tree of Life may appear in the world and make it new. Is this not the coming of the Kingdom of God on earth? What greater privilege could there be than to work towards this objective!

Now we have the World Crusade, given to us in the unfoldment of the God-given Mandate of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá, His Divine Plan, with its tasks made clear to us by our beloved Guardian. This is resulting in the establishment of many institutions of the World Order of Bahá’u’lláh throughout the world, so that increasing thousands of people will awaken and come under the shade and protection of this Tree of Life. Already many seeds sown have borne fruit and the new believers themselves are carrying the Teachings of Bahá’u’lláh to still other parts of the world.

Have you noticed that many of those actively engaged in the tasks of the World Crusade are Youth? As ‘Abdu’l-Bahá said, this is a very blessed time. It seems to me perhaps it is especially blessed in the opportunities it offers to Bahá’í Youth, to be a part of this stirring new life, whether in foreign fields or on the home front which now is of such concern to our beloved Guardian.

In the Tablet on the New Year ‘Abdu’l-Bahá wrote further: "I desire for you all that you will have this great assistance and partake of this great bounty, and that in spirit and heart you will strive and endeavor until the world of war become the world of peace; the world of darkness the world of light; satanic conduct be turned into heavenly behavior; the ruined places become built up; the sword be turned into the olive branch; the flash of hatred become the flame of the love of God and the noise of the gun the voice of the Kingdom; the soldiers of death the soldiers of life; all the nations of the world one nation; all races as one race: and all national anthems harmonized into one melody. Then this material realm will be Paradise, the the earth Heaven, and the world of Satan became the world of Angels."

— MRS. AMELIA COLLINS, Vice-President, International Council, and Hand of the Cause.

From a teacher's notebook

SPIRITUAL EDUCATION FOR THE “DIFFERENT” CHILD

Are there any children in your neighborhood who are obviously different from other children? Have you ever wondered about them, or what could be done for them?

"Exceptional" is a word which is used to describe a child who, for some as yet unknown reason, is mentally slower than the average child in our world's society. "Crippled" is another word which indicates that an individual is physically incapable of performing all the functions of the average person. Children of both the above types are found in great number all over this world. Some of these children are both "exceptional" and "crippled." They may be found in all neighborhoods, all countries, all classes; yet they make up a large group in our society which bears the brunt of some of the cruelest forms of prejudice which man, through his ignorance, is able to inflict on any minority group.

What makes a child like this? (Many illnesses can be crippling, but for the sake of clarity we shall not deal with these in this article). Science only wishes it could know the full story, but as yet it does not. What is known is that many of these children are "born that way." In other words, sometime before, during or shortly after birth, the child underwent some form of injury to some of the cells in his brain. Or, for some even more peculiar reason, the child's brain simply didn't develop fully. Just as many children are born without an arm or a leg, a child may be born with a part—maybe the very smallest part—of his brain missing. Because of this, the child may have a slow reasoning power, or he may not be able to control his muscular movements, he may be deaf or blind, or may be without speech.

Before going any further, let us remember that if you or I were hit by a car tomorrow and suffered a brain injury, we might become exactly like one of these children.

The sciences of medicine and education are finally trying to help these children to become productive, well-adjusted members of society. And now, through surgery, physical and occupational therapies, many of them learning to walk and use their hands. Many are learning to speak, many are being educated. Let us not be misled by appearances, quite a few of these handicapped children are very bright and able to learn.

As the Bahá’í Faith is a Universal Faith, its principles must be applicable to all—not a few—members of society. This includes the exceptional and the crippled.

Bahá’u’lláh and ‘Abdu’l-Bahá repeatedly affirm the duty of all parents and society to educate all children in "praiseworthy virtues and qualities" "and to study sciences with the utmost diligence." However, they acknowledge the fact that all children are born with differences of learning capacity. So if a child should be incapable of gaining the highest scientific knowledge, we should not be greatly disturbed, for there is still a great path of enlightenment open to each child and adult. Consider those points which ‘Abdu’l-Bahá has listed for us as the qualifications of an "Enlightened Soul": Knowledge the knowledge of God; Faith; Steadfastness; Truthfulness; Uprightness of conduct; Fidelity; Humility. (BWF. p. 384)

I firmly believe, through my experiences with handicapped and retarded children, that it is very possible—by learning through example and experiences of daily living—for any child to attain a degree of these qualities. The example should be both the parent and some knowledge of the life of the Great Exemplar—the Manifestation of God. The child should be treated as closely as possible to a child who is not afflicted by a great handicap. Though these children will have to suffer more, perhaps, than the average child, they will still grow. Consider these words of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá on this subject: "As to the subject of babes and infants and weak ones who are afflicted by the hands of oppressors: This contains great wisdom and this subject is of paramount importance. In brief, for those souls there is recompense in another world and many details are connected with this matter. For those souls that suffering is the greatest mercy of God. Verily that mercy of the Lord is far preferable to all the comfort of this world and the growth and development of this place of mortality." (B.W.F. p. 372)

How can we help these children to learn and develop spiritually? First, we can accept the child and his own personality, love him and enjoy him, as we should any child. We must accept his handicap realistically, providing him with educational goals he can attain, not impossibilities that would only frustrate him and ourselves. We must allow him freedom to grow and investigate, rather than smothering his light with over-protection and fears. We must make plenty of social contact available to him and teach him to be part of a group, not the most important or unusual, but an integral part of the group. We can give him tasks and jobs within his ability to perform in the spirit of service, in order that he might feel and be worthwhile. We must praise him for his achievements if they are worthy of praise. We must discipline him when he needs discipline, and we must love him all the time. We must remember never to rush the handicapped child, bearing in mind that he is not hopeless, but he may be slow. But above all, we ourselves must provide him as his parent or teacher—with that example of fine conduct that we would have him follow, and we can only do this by attempting, to our best ability, to follow the life and teachings of our Great Exemplar.

It may be a surprise to all—as it has been to me—how much we can learn about educating ourselves when work to educate a "different" child.

— NANCY L. JONES, Occupational Therapist, Supervisor of Cerebral Palsy Service, University Medical Center, Kansas City, Kansas. [Page 3]

INDEX

CONTENTS OF CHILD’S WAY JUNE, 1956 — APRIL, 1957

Subject	Issue	No.	Page
From the International Center
“A Blessed Time for a Blessed Youth” (Amelia Collins)	Apr.	50	1, 2
From the editor’s notebook
Dominion	Feb.	49	1
From a teacher’s notebook
Covenant (“The Great Promise”)	Dec.	48	1, 2
Character (“Self Development”—Stanwood Cobb)	Oct.	47	1, 2
” ” ” ”	Dec.	48	2
” ” ” ”	Feb.	49	2
” ” ” ”	Apr.	50	4
Teaching Methods (Seminar)	Aug.	46	1, 2
Justice and Prayer (Amy B. Dwelly)	June	45	1, 2
Spiritual Education of the Different Child (Nancy Jones)	Apr.	50	2
Music Appreciation; Creative teaching (Idaho Report Concl.)	June	45	2, 3
Questions and answers
Modesty	Aug.	46	3
Religious Training	Aug.	46	3
Memorizing Prayers	June	45	3
Purpose of Life	June	45	3
Wisdom of Prayer	June	45	3
Training of Children	June	45	3
Sharing our letters
Guardian's directive to children	June	45	4
Problems of eleven-year-old (‎Baha'i Bahá’í‎ mother)	Aug.	46	4
Teaching aims (Lawrence Passow)	Dec.	48	4
Response to Mr. Passow (Mrs. Warfield)	Feb.	49	4
Response to Mr. Passow (Dr. and Mrs. McClellan)	Apr.	50	3
Appreciation of Music (Jeanne Laite)	Aug.	46	4
Guardian's letter to a nine-year-old	Apr.	50	3
Children’s hour news
‎Baha'i Bahá’í‎ House of Worship classes	June	45	4
Geneva Switzerland classes	Oct.	47	4
“Operation Giving” project	Feb.	49	3
Naw Ruz Greeting	Apr.	50	2
Geyserville Summer Classes and picture	Feb.	49	3
Trends, techniques, tips
Symbols of World’s Religions and picture	Dec.	48	3
Use of Flannel Board	June	45	3
Art work in class	Aug.	46	3
Teaching the ‎Baha'i Bahá’í‎ Calendar	Aug.	46	4
How to make inexpensive blackboards	Oct.	47	3
Bulletin Boards and picture	Oct.	47	3
Art of Music	Feb.	49	3
Reader’s Service
Suggested references	Oct.	47	3
” ”	Feb.	49	4
Children’s Page
Covenant (story)	Dec.	48
Mirza ’Ali Muhammad (story)	Oct.	47
Feast Day (story by Gary Rae Airth)	Aug.	46
Martyrdom of the Bab (story by Zoe Meyers)	June	45
Puzzler (Hidden Word)	June	45
Memory ‎Qucte Quote‎ and picture	June	45
” ” ” ”	Aug.	46
Temple of Light (story by Polly Marlowe)	Feb.	49
Puzzler (Glory)	Apr.	50
From a Child’s Notebook (Keithy Blum)	Apr.	50
The Mystery (story)	Apr.	50
The Treasure (story)	Apr.	50
Song (“Holy Gate”)	June	45
” (“Work With Joy”)	Aug.	46
” (“Knowledge is from God”)	Oct.	47
” (“Your Song” - you write the verses)	Dec.	48
Junior Youth Page
Source of Knowledge (article)	Oct.	47
The Marriage of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá	Dec.	48
Summer Schools (article)	June	45	1
What is Perfection? (article)	Aug.	46
Vacation at Green Acre (Karol Kaye)	Oct.	47
The Master's Visit	Dec.	48
A Junior Youth reports (Peggy Brogan)	Apr.	50
Did you know that? (Facts for juniors)	Oct.	47
Feast of Dominion	Feb.	49
Feast of Splendor	Apr.	50
Feast of Beauty	Apr.	50
Brotherhood (Table Talk)	Feb.	49
Holiday Suggestion (Cheryl Gaye McCurdy)	Feb.	49
Song (“In An Eastern Garden”)	Apr.	50

Sharing our letters

Excerpt from a letter written by R. Rabbani, to a nine year old girl.

“The beloved Guardian has received your letter of December 24th, and has instructed me to answer you on his behalf.

“He is happy to know that, now while you are young, and have determined to devote your life to serving Bahá’u’lláh; and he will pray that this deepest wish of your heart may be realized; and that even now, in these days of your youth, you may be able to show others by your deeds and your words what a ‎Baha'i Bahá’í‎ Life should be.

“If you will read one of the Hidden Words of Bahá’u’lláh each day, and endeavor to live according to that one on that day, it will help you to be patient and loving as you wish to be.”

DEAR EDITORS:

In the December 1956 issue of CHILD'S WAY appeared a letter from Mr. Lawrence Passow of Franklin Park, Illinois, asking for clarification of the goal of the ‎Baha'i Bahá’í‎ Child Education program. We agree with you that this is a significant and pertinent question. We wish to offer an answer derived from some thinking about the spiritual education of our own children.

Let us state at the outset that we firmly believe the purpose is “. . . to help develop intelligent, clear thinking individuals . . .” who, we would add, are capable of, and feel the responsibility for, independent investigation of the truth. Having stated this it must be pointed out that any parent or teacher who succeeds in this aim has at the same time “indoctrinated” a child with a basic ‎Baha'i Bahá’í‎ concept, for Independent Investigation of Reality is often stated to be the first principle of the ‎Baha'i Bahá’í‎ Faith. In part, then, what Mr. Passow presents as seemingly alternative goals are seen to be identical.

As to the teachings of other Faiths, these are surely part of a ‎Baha'i Bahá’í‎ educational program, but an explanation is needed. What is incumbent upon the ‎Baha'i Bahá’í‎ teacher, it seems to us, is to present to the child the notion of the Oneness of God and of His Prophets, the authenticity of each of the Revelations upon which a major religion has been founded, and the essential verities common to all of these religions. The child so taught will be prejudiced against no form of worship and will feel at home in any mosque, church or synagogue where, as his curiosity matures, he may more intimately explore, according to his own inclination, the manifold variations of religious belief and practice to be found in the world.

A word more needs to be said. Teaching necessarily has two aspects: the content of what is taught and the manner or method of presentation. In the latter lies the crux of the question under discussion, it seems to us. Whether as parent or teacher it behooves a Bahá’í to behave in his relationships with children in such a way as to enable them to attain, as rapidly as possible, to full physical, mental and [Page 4]spiritual independence. This implies that somewhere near the age of puberty the youth will find himself free to question, without anxiety from within or resistance from without, all that he has been taught and to pass judg- ment on it-relying upon his own mind and heart for his standards.

How can a parent or teacher accom- plish this? It is obviously a profounder and more subtle matter than merely telling a child that seeking truth is a virtue, though this is itself important and perhaps too often overlooked. We would mention only one factor. The adult who is truly humble in the presence of his children or pupils as well as before God-has acquired a characteristic of vital importance for what we are speaking of as the aim of Bahá’í education.

Sincerely, SAM MCCLELLAN MIMI MCCLELLAN Cambridge, Mass.

CONCLUSION

Thus the will is not a completely free and independent instrument for self- perfection. Instead of being able to dominate and rule our desire-nature by the will and intelligence, we tend to be controlled and governed by our emotions and to make use of our in- telligence as an instrument to gain the objects of our desires.

It is vastly important, then, that we train our desire-nature heavenward, so to speak; in other words, come more and more earnestly to desire spiritual progress and spiritual powers and attainments. This desire is greatly strengthened by aspiration, prayer and meditation, and by association with others who are spiritually minded.

Prayer is the food of spirit. We can no more expect to develop spiritually without it than we could expect to de- velop physically without food, Man cannot rise spiritually by his own un- aided efforts. He needs the power of the Holy Spirit for self-perfectioning. This is attained through prayer, through turning to God and beseeching aid and grace for such a spiritual development.

There is a mysterious power which is called the grace of God. It is some- thing that few understand, perhaps none except the Revelator. It is that attribute of Deity which is available upon earnest request and beseechment for help in trouble; and more valuably still, for aid in spiritual development. Its contribution to our spiritual prog- ress may be compared to the contribu- tion of sunshine and richness of soil to the growth of plants. By attracting the grace of God to us through prayer and meditation, we can make amazing pro- gress in spiritual growth transcending the slow and tedious average.

It is the grace of God, this special outpouring of the Holy Spirit toward man's needs, that causes those miracles of transmutation of human character which characterize the highest expe- riences of religious history. Through this power released by a Revelator we see men and women turn from evil or from selfish idle lives to become verit- table saints. This power is especially potent in the early period of a great world religion. It is released in great waves upon the planet and becomes available for every earnest seeker.

The noblest fruits of human charac- ter have been achieved under the stim- ulus of devotion to religion. This rela- tionship of man to God through the channel of a Revelator, with the eter- nal stimulus and inspiration of that perfect and noble Pattern held before him, has produced the most glorious and noble characters in history.

We are today, I believe, at the dawn of another great religious epoch. We must learn to avail ourselves of this tremendous power of the Holy Spirit and of the grace of God for attaining the utmost possible self-development and character growth. We need this aid not only for character but also for an intellectual development that shall be universal in its scope. We are not fulfilling our function as spiritual be- ings until we shine with a new potency in the midst of a materialistic and evil world. Not until humanity awakens to this new plane and standard of self-development and self-perfection will an ideal social pattern for the world be achieved.

"When a divine spiritual illumina- tion becomes manifest in the world of humanity, when divine instruction and guidance appear, then enlightenment follows, a spirit is realized within, a new power descends and a new life is given. It is like the birth from the ani- mal kingdom into the kingdom of man. When man acquires these virtues, the oneness of the world of humanity will be revealed, the banner of interna- tional peace will be upraised, equality between all mankind will be realized and the Orient and Occident will be- come one. Then will the justice of God become manifest, all humanity will appear as the members of one family and every member of that family will be consecrated to cooperation and mu- tual assistance. The lights of the love of God will shine; eternal happiness will be unveiled; everlasting joy and spiritual delight will be attained."*

Self-development is a lifelong proc- ess, not limited to youth. We grow eternally throughout this life and through future lives toward distant shining goals of power and glory of service which by no stretch of the imagination could we possibly conceive at this stage of our existence. Self- development, in its highest aspect, is divine development and has no end short of Infinity.

• ‘Abdu’l-Bahá "The Reality of Man."

Bahá’í Publishing Trust, Wilmette, Ill.

Child's Way

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THE EDITORS

Naw-Ruz Greetings

Year 114

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