Transcript of: Spiritual Education of Children
William S. Hatcher
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Yeah, yeah, but i just wanted to say, uh that that i have ah, general a very positive impression off the child rearing practices that i observed in russia telling politically practical way all know the extremely difficult material circumstances exist in russia on that prevent families from giving their children uh many things that they would like to get their way is the slow way but 'Abdu'l-Baha says one of the principle being mentioned is that children should be from an early age are accustomed to hardship not accurate is sending thirty thousand you got it, chris loathe of course that we should in flint fortune estonia's situation without nato stuff like getting struck daniel spitz has not yet given the quietest what this means again is the child should understand the long pause in effect that in order to obtain our results one needs to work on a stride or two it is the law of the united nations says any real or is that a ricin scare ? This can go toe to toe so as i say as a westerner, i don't really think i have very much to teach the russians that i thought it might be worth to mention some of the principles behind faith of a child bearing because uh so that you can even do better than you do get the rest of his up close up with her way way, way, way, way, way, way potentially like girls that way people above this is a much basically evil comes from misuse off our freedom must tell booth and as every Baha'i says we're way past that route calls off wrong doing evil busy maternity store smooth continue wayne knows that that the human being is a needful creature names situation is his toward station on Baha'i rotting explained to us that god has provided a legitimate means for the satisfaction of every human being, pretentious names, standing or do you want to support that ? But if these needs of these essential needs are not satisfied in a legitimate and healthy way, then they give rise to impulses that is illegitimate needs, and i'll give you some examples of the nationalist nightstick is way, way, way, way, way, way. For example. Every human being has the need to be loved and valued by. These people really believe that if the young child is not properly loved value, then he will have an exaggerated need. For example, really approval of other people might be established. You thought this may express itself in different forms for me to go with the russians. For example, the child is a girl. She might become a prostitute she might have. You might express this need for love by sexual promise good thing is they're going to wait to see if it is a man might come, for example, very manipulative. He might come out of these psychopathic people who manipulates others to get things out of the booth or he might become very tyrannical personally to try to compel other to recognize that it is not about standard teaches us that he was or he might take if you feel that they have been unfairly treated, the child might take imaginary vengeance on the people by hurting other people as he has been hurt. You did not see you way, way, way really quality. You just gave three examples about men in every one example. Well, because women are women of this planet equality because women are better than give you that is not that swath but you see one way or another he's my apologies to be called evil result from the legitimate needs of the person not having been satisfied. Okay, wait, wait! What ? You were very honest. Very near your body is a prison and this goes back again to ignorance. 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What we could do with picking up states wouldn't feel it, but most of the way, i think we have to have legs that everything that we have done for a child, everything positive will have an effect on our later, whether they trust that the postal system dealing with around here because i have a lot of faith in the capacity of children to, um, to make very deep trough. Yeah, which you special teams dealing what you're working with ? Station um, for example, my wife and i have helped, um i've been involved in helping uh, several different families through difficulties can weigh in on the results, the results ofthe help e e e e e e e e e e e e e e. Now, i think that this person is now heavily involved in trafficking drugs is going to end up living a life that you are standing in a political one second, i know another case off another child. It was extremely your e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee i been stealing e e e e e e e e e e so s so when a child this young, we could wait just before any attributes inequality with, like the chances it's like the plague, which has grown really there's. No way of changing the shape. So the same goes for child bearing. If the opportunity is missed, that child will be influenced by many other factors that weigh toe entity. The child is to set the pattern for the behavior of the parents that there's a child like mira e. I want to confirm that expressed by people who say that we should encourage it's going to be a video so that they will get used to this pool, so that when the ocean, because parents should say they're now your misbehaving and this loss off the floor off, parents would also make it with the privacy i don't quite agree with every night here on the whole way. Here, i've got a family off sixty, and i have to choose to soothe. And to keep you in a different approach to raising a biologist. I would say that you need this's just. This is just one aspect of the difference of the direct way, way, and this particular charity care is already with child, since they're very, very age, with cradle twister simple, just, they could take it like a piece of clay, just shape it's been waiting to open. Just say that it's. Good. It is going to race one kind of child by full but not by the way they're discouraged when you review them, but the other kind of a person with cancer prejudice it it's a very delicate that's true because in these differences are do not primarily to genetics but to the difference in the spirituals that is in the soul itself, Baha'i explains. And now every city in this practice to its recipe cheers committee on is a large in a personal way to shape much of the capital 'Abdu'l-Baha makes the point that all the all the qualities are good it's just that they are in different proportions Akka coverage of psychologist russian president chile tony it starts to make you president sat fashion so a child it is, for example, very easily obedient uh may also be a child with usually influenced by other watching a solution for what you believe opened productively and on a very difficult child may turn out to be a very, very autonomous, very replaced running which is sloshing never speak really doing with your fucking is anything like the way that i have the Baha'i we must look to what the qualities off the child are. We must be the gyms that air in the child that's got everybody thinking sitting if you boys with their reelection fusion realistically people share way have to see that what is good may not be what exactly pleases us all. What makes us feel better ? You stay out of my store look at that video uh some loves me very much and one of them was if you're just about the vegetarian so so you have different way, way, way, way, way back in the children's reasonable doubt except for him because he was spoiled by the way you said it wasn't me that the older you are the youngest i was in the middle like many when you come back later they started to loathe e e e e e e e e e e e e e ware so way when we detect such a predisposition in a young child, then of course we may have to take specific measures to counter act this way. This bullet's conscious the game's over here this is where it's so important to have the spiritual not just material before what you are watching way. Because if we are materialists and we think that the child is nothing but his genetic inheritance and we will take a fatalistic attitude will say, well, this is the way he is there's nothing to do about that was using was saying that the majority which would mean that you have super efficient connecticut, you say yes, it would that is, way, way, way hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee, hee, hee, hee, hee, hee hee what if there is a different approach different parents to the children, like some parents love their children for themselves, saying many moms love the baby that you're going without considering being bill ready shares. So preaching that you were with the law because of the fed will come in that way, way very important problem scattering, which is an institution but it's one of the things that people are getting very high, they should discuss it a public together. How dangerous it was smooth and first times material with the memory of the original fellas party part because off their difference off approach to child rearing. A funny, funny, funny and strange, strange, strange days, my son will grow up without me. They very well know that you know this all really means to their mothers and what's interesting. I'm not sure i'm articulating this correctly because i i'm just never read about that i just heard it from people people get that in japan they allow their children to do whatever they please until the age of six aboutthe after the age of six they start requiring the residual play obedience to sit wait and they say that that's the result of off the good manners off the japanese way is neither booth the only thing i talk about in north america where they left the children do what they want that's for the whole long it is national st mark's got assurance night that there was any c of munich wait to the age of one you can see what you're after five that's but do they allowed to kill somebody ? But people tried to kill anybody under the age of five were killed i think that's maybe one point here does that this special if one thinks again from the spirit of perspective that the purpose of child rearing is to leave the child to spiritually Iqan what does not dismiss motiveless itto answers for you because you say you're still going to call me after well in my experience this means that the one is stricter at the beginning and one gradually becomes less strict and the child becomes more all time this seems to me to be the logical when you if they need it, said like you're ready to cross the channel with strong people media is way, way, way, way have to remember that that this spiritually goal of giving the child uh raising the child spiritually autonomy is not the goal that exist in most scythe goal and other societies is to have the children be successful in certain very specific way dr salia was tiny titty no team spirit jonas mississippi and different societies this success can mean different things Iraq watches spear many minds it may mean the child should make a lot of money to take care of the parents they're all they never get in that booth on uh i say i don't know about japan but we certainly know that the notion of success in japan is very sharply defined that children are supposed to succeed in their studies and, uh that having that they're pressed study very hard as young children and so on so so uh what's clear is that children in japan have to fulfill very specific expectations of society that have very little to do with their spiritual got the hours of radio city and you're what fourteen years hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee can wait just a question of falling children is often confused with loving them too much i want to make a different body but you did just that you can't love children too much you can't love anybody to cover what is needed is traditionally people, so when we indulge children, uh this is not love that we're showing you smooth because we needed, uh, to indulge a child is born child is perhaps to seek his approval because after all, we want their approval which also or to satisfy the child so it will bother us or whatever. They may be all sorts of reasons for spoiling our indulging the child, but this is not to be confused with loving but that cut the bottom. A tv critic tony has a special any unusual animal gratitude, usually because the pizza oven and stove suppression way need so these are some of the issues that are raised disgusting behind writing about teaching children with musical a process inside the station he was teaching about teaching magically become a virgin on um so i think maybe i will stop here to give us plenty of time for discussion questions. I just wanted to say, uh that that i have ah, general a very positive impression off the child rearing practices that i observed in russia telling you politically hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee Baha'i faith of a child very because so that you can even do better get with the star way, way, way, way, way, way, way, way potentially like girls that way people can go. This is a much basically evil comes from misuse off our freedom must tell bythe and as every Baha'i says we're way past that the route calls off wrong doing of evil, then wayne knows that that the human being is a needful creature names situation is his work station on Baha'i rotting explained to us that god has provided a legitimate means for the satisfaction of every human being in attendance names standing, or do you want to support that ? But if these needs of these essential needs are not satisfied in a legitimate and healthy way, then they give rise to impulses that is illegitimate needs, and i'll give some examples the nationalist i'm sticking way that way that way that way, that, for example, having every human being has the need to be loved and valued, by the way, is no value. If the young child is not properly loved value, then he will have an exaggerated need, for example, really approval of other people might be established, you thought this may express itself in different forms for needs an adult don't do this for example of the child is a girl she might become a prostitute she might have she might express this need for love by sexual promiscuity is there any way to see if it is a man the market for example very manipulative he might become one of these psychopathic people who manipulates others to get things out of the booth or he might become very tyrannical personally trying to compel other to recognize that it is not about standards and teaches us that he was or he might take if he feels that he has been unfairly treated the child might take imaginary vengeance on the people by hurting other people as he has been hurt you did not see you way way so one way or another they really quality you just gave three examples about men in every one example well because women are women of this planet equality because women are better than you is not that swath but you see one way or another he's apologies we called evil result from the legitimate needs of the person not having been satisfied okay wait wait what ? You were very honest in barinas on your body is a more prisons and this goes back again to ignorance that is a lack hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee waiting here in the shade wait wait wait wait, wait e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e, e, e, e, e, e, e! Way! Way, way, way, way, back, way, way, way, way! Expensive way to kristin booth for several years that you are, way, way, way, way, way, way, way, way, way because, well, of course, this, of course, is one example of the many difficulties, even tragic situation that exists in society and punish nineteen this in europe, which is in the tradition of you are saying, wait can only do it in such circumstances. What we could do with picking up states wouldn't feel it, but most of the way, i think we have to have legs that everything that we have done for a child, everything politics will have an effect in earlier, whether they trust that the postal system dealing with around because i have a lot of faith in the capacity of children to, uh, to make very deep trough. Yeah ? Would you special teams dealing what you're working with ? Station for example, my wife and i have helped, um, i've been involved in helping, uh, several different families through difficulties can weigh in on the results, the results ofthe help. E e e, e, e, e, e, e, e, e e e e e e. Now, i think that this person is now heavily involved in trafficking drugs is going to end up spending a lot of public you are standing in a political one second, i know another case off of a child. It was extremely your e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e e hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee. I have been feeling e e e e e e e e e e so s so when a child this young way, way before any tribute inequality and the chances it's like the plague, which has grown really there's no way of changing the shape. So the same goes for child rearing. If the opportunity is missed, that child will be influenced by many other factors that weigh. The best way to educate the child is to set the pattern for the behavior of the parents in that. There's. A child like mira e i want to express my beautiful said that we should encourage good. You would be a video of the children so that they will get used to this pool, so that when the ocean, because parents should say they're now your misbehaving and this loss off the floor off, parents would also make it with precision. I don't quite agree with every night here on the whole way. Here, i've got a family off six years, and i have to choose to soothe. And to give you a different approach to raising biologists, i would say that you need this's this's aspect of their difference on the way the way this particularity of care is already with child, since they're very, very age with cradle twister, simple, just couldn't take it like a piece of clay. Just shape its way. Just say that, it's. Good. It is going to race one kind of child by full but not by you wear discouraged when you review them but the other kind of a person with cancer prejudice it it's a very delicate that's true across in these differences are do not primarily to genetics but to the difference in the spirituals that is in the soul itself Baha'i explains and now every city in this practice to its recipe cheers limitations on is a larger question over to shape much of the capital 'Abdu'l-Baha makes the point that all that all the qualities for good it's just that they are in different proportions Akka coverage of a conscious russian president chile tony it starts to make you sad fashion so a child that is for example very easily obedient uh may also be a child with usually influenced by other watching a solution for what you believe opened Baghdad productively and a very difficult child may turn out to be a very very autonomous very replaced watching sloshing never speak to you for watching is a decent way that's i have Baha'i we must look to what the qualities off the child are we must be these gyms that air in the child that's got everybody thinking sitting a few points with religion confusion really political way have to see that what is good may not be what exactly pleases us all what makes us feel better you stay out of my store share that with you uh some love me very much and one of them was if you're just but the vegetarian so so you have different way way, way, way, way back all the children grew up reasonable doubt except for him because he was spoiled by the way you say it wasn't me that the older you are the youngest i was in the middle like many when you come back later they started to loathe e e e e e e e e e e e e e e ware so way when we detect such a predisposition in a young child then of course we may have to take specific measures to counter act the pull conscious that game's over here this is where it's so important to have the spiritual not just material before what we're watching for me because if we are materialists and we think that the child is nothing but his genetic inheritance and we will take a fatalistic attitude will say well this is the way he is there's nothing to do about that that was the scene was saying that the majority which would mean that you have super efficient connecticut uses justin that is way way hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee way what if there is a different approach different parents to the children like some parents love their children for themselves, saying many moms love their babies without considering being has already shared that reaching that you were with the law because it will come in that way very important problem scattering which is insufficient but it's one of the things that when people are getting very by, they should discuss it in public together how dangerous it was smooth times remember the original fellas party fell apart because off their difference off approach to child rearing hopes of a funny, funny, funny and strange strange days my son will grow up without me they don't know, you know this all really means to their mothers and what's interesting there friend, i'm sure i'm articulating this correctly because i i'm just never read about that. I just heard it from people people get that in japan they allow their children to do whatever they please until the age of six aboutthe after the age of six, they start requiring the residual play obedience to soothe, and they say that that's the result of off the good manners for the japanese way is neither booth talk about north america, where they have children do what they want that's for the whole along its national st mark's got assurance night that there was any time you get if you don't get your way into a job where you can do whatever you have to gain by that but do they allowed to kill somebody ? But people never tried to kill anybody under the age of five were killed, i think that's, maybe one point here, don't they Abbas Abbas especially if one thinks again from the spirit of perspective, that the purpose of child rearing is to leave the child to spiritually, often what does not dismiss motiveless toe to toe with you because you say you're still going toe hold me after well, in my experience, this means that the one is stricter at the beginning and one gradually becomes less strict and the child becomes more all time. This seems to me to be the logical that when you, if they need it, said, like you're ready to cross the channel with booth pushing is a recent history book, a sloppy way have to remember that that this spiritually goal of giving the child, uh, raising the child spiritually autonomy is not the goal that exist in most scythe goal and other societies is to have the children be successful in certain very specific way. Dr salia was tiny titty, no team spirit, Iran osmosis and different societies, this success can mean different things Abbas watches spear many minds, it may mean the child should make a lot of money to take care of the parents. They're always never get enough that you might actually be my most about continue with the story of a teen suspect. On, uh, as i say, i don't know about japan. But we certainly know that the notion of success in japan is very sharply defined, that children are supposed to succeed in their studies. And, uh, that having that, they're pressed study very hard as young children. And so on. So so, uh, what's clear is that children in japan have to fulfill very specific expectations of society that have very little to do with their spiritual how's. Your videos and your teen years Akka
